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Erin Khar is the author of STRUNG OUT and writes the weekly Ask Erin advice column.

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Ask Erin: My Family Doesn't Approve Of My Relationship

May 19, 2022 Erin Khar

Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

I’ve been with my significant other for almost ten years now…. Long story short, my family disapproves of him, and it is tremendous stress that I need to address. I’m just not sure how. I love my significant other and want it to work more than anything, but sometimes I am not 100% certain we are best for each other.

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In AskErin Tags Ask Erin, relationship problems, relationship advice, family problems, family, toxic, boundaries, communication
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Ask Erin: Is My Relationship Salvageable?

March 17, 2022 Erin Khar

Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

My boyfriend said he’s questioning his sexuality… He’s broken up with me at this point… He still says he’s attracted to me and ultimately wants me in his life. He says he still sees a future, but we’re still broken up… Where do I go from here? Am I kidding myself into thinking it’s salvageable, or is my relationship DOA?”

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In AskErin Tags Ask Erin, advice, relationship problems, relationship advice, relationships, coming out, sexuality, breakups, codependent
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Ask Erin: I Need To Call Off My Wedding

January 27, 2022 Erin Khar

Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

I realized I’m not actually bisexual, as I thought I was. I’m a lesbian… I’m scared to cancel the wedding and tell my family and let his family down, but I’m also scared to live the rest of my life feeling as unfulfilled as I do now…. I don’t know how to call off a wedding and not be a terrible person for doing that.



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In AskErin Tags Ask Erin, relationship advice, engagement, coming out, the truth
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Ask Erin: Did My Relationship End Because Of My Temper?

January 20, 2022 Erin Khar

*Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

“He kept me a secret… her clothes were still at his place… she was still texting him and telling him she loved him. Instead of ignoring her, he texted her back… In the end, I lost my temper… We have now split up, and he says it’s because of my rage AND my need always to be right… Was I right to leave this situation, or has he got a point?”



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In AskErin Tags Ask Erin, advice, relationship advice, gaslighting, temper, rage, breakups, lies, emotional cheating
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Ask Erin: I'm Telling The Truth But My Boyfriend Doesn't Believe Me

December 9, 2021 Erin Khar

Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

Things had been going well until he found out that I was stalked by an ex at one point in my two years of being single. I did answer his texts here and there to keep the stalking down. So this comes up in conversation, and he says I lied, and I still love my ex… I told him the truth, and he didn't want to believe me.

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In AskErin Tags Ask Erin, relationship problems, relationship advice, stalking, toxic, emotional abuse, red flags
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Ask Erin: I'm Having An Emotional Affair

November 17, 2021 Erin Khar

Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

There is a man I have been emotionally cheating with for a while now… Some days, we talk for hours at a time when we can and can send hundreds of messages within a matter of hours!



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In AskErin Tags Ask Erin, advice, relationships, relationship problems, relationship advice, cheating, emotional cheating, emotional affair, affair, red flags
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